1.
Many African ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure –
it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a
mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television
to watch another celebrity entertainment channel.
Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset
aside how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?
2.
Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just because they had
been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in
a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern media that promotes
gender-equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the unique
African family setting that made our previous African marriages everlasting and
envious to the westerns.
Now, with this attitude, how do you expect an African man
to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble
than help for himself?
3.
Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off- if you have
observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and more
don’t even like it at all; reason they often times discourage their true loved
ones to do away with it because it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men
will applaud and complement you for looking like an Egyptian mummy.
A slight makeup is okay; but if you are out for marriage,
try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and
serious-minded, except you are still living in your high school life and not thinking
towards marriage.
4.
Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Tom, Dick and Harry! No man would want to
propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with
unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and
will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.
5. You
Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating- because your
best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally
married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way.
Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be
a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth
committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material
gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals
in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being
a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.
6.
Your Friends Run Your Life - how do you expect to find a husband when you still
allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your
love and which is not? When will you wake up and face the fact that those your
best friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry before them
or to marry the best man?
7. You
Give Everything Out During Dating - As a single lady who has not been taken to
the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your
body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry
to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being
single.
Such privileges include and not limited to: constant sex
and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc.
But today, a single man gets even the best and of course
more of constant sex, good food and excellent home-keeping more than his
married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry
you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while
being his girlfriend?
And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that
you are prepared to cut down on sex supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc. once he
marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life?
8. You
Package Yourself Wrongly - in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe
appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you
look more whorish than modest; more unattractive than attractive, and more
disgusting than adorable.
Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you
most times.
If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be
attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy and provocative, only randy
men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate sex urge, so
don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant
for certain set of ladies you wouldn’t like to be associated with, be careful.
Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a
seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.
9. You
Lack Manners, Character, Wisdom and Good Home Upbringing-definitely, your ‘hot
girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both the
good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the
things that will determine whether any of those men would stay or run after
accomplishing their evil missions.
In order words, do away with nagging, being possessive, challenging
with men in negative ways, the mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’,
a lie devil has used to deceive and destroy so many ladies today, please do
away with it.
10.
Some ladies lament- some men aren't matured enough in character to be married.
They said that-You can see a guy of 40 behaving like a 10years old, And thus
they decide - it’s better to remain single than to marry a man who refuse to
grow up. But you can mold your desired man from the unrefined baby he is.
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