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Sunday, January 01, 2017

Premarital Sex from the Christian Perspective

Written by: Mayowa Adeniyi

Danger signs are often placed on the road to enable motorists and pedestrians to be warned of the likelihood of hurt or damage. Those who are wise would heed the warning signs but the ignorant will ignore.

However, it is commonly said that, forewarned is forearmed. Sex is a beautiful thing that was created by God for the good of mankind. One of the ways through which we can multiply, subdue, dominate and replenish the earth is through sex.

But unfortunately, the devil has made this good thing to be evil while placing it on a platter of fun, enjoyment or being social and exposed. Marital sex is not dangerous but the likes of premarital and extramarital sex are highly dangerous.

A dangerous thing might seem good to do but only the wise would see the consequence before tasting the pleasure. What are the dangers inherent in premarital sex?

According to a social media article by Olusola Opeyemi, he stated that professionals in the school of psychology said "Getting sexually active before marriage only prepares you for infidelity, nothing else." And if all the world renowned psychologist gives you one thousand and one reasons why you must have premarital sex, God whose foolishness is greater than their wisdom tells you it's wrong. 

(1 Corinthians.1:25,27).
For the foolishness of God is wiser than human wisdom, and the weakness of God is stronger than human strength.
But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong.

1. Medically, there are thousands of things that is wrong with premarital sex. Premarital sex is responsible for all Sexually Transmitted Infections and Diseases on earth. Millions of people have lost their precious lives as a result of STIs and STDs. It is also responsible for abortions that take place annually and globally.

Some people lost their lives while some become infertile in the process of abortions. Abortion doesn't exonerate one from pregnancy, rather it confers the title of a murderer to the perpetrator. It only makes you a mother of a dead child.

It is the causes of Human papillomavirus (HPV) which is responsible for Cervical Cancer. As at today, 3 out of 5 sexually active single guys or girls has one sexually transmitted infection (STI) or the other.

2. The emotional effect is too grievous to cope with. There's a connection with your emotions and your sexual life, this is more prominent in women. When you have premarital sex, you're emotionally tied to whoever you have it with.

This is often the cause of soul tie. Your soul becomes knitted and you won't be free from the bond unless you prayerfully break it. However, soul tie covenant is the hardest to break. This is why you'd see a married woman being tied to her ex after many years of separation.
This is a serious matter you don't negotiate with.

3. The psychological effect of premarital sex is that it comes with guilt and condemnation. There's always a guilt and condemning thoughts that comes with every acts of premarital sex. Moreover, when the conscience has been seared with a hot iron of disobedience through frequent premarital sex, it made millions of people become sexual predators, masturbators, porn addicts and porn stars due to their early initiation into fornication.

Many are having sexual dysfunctions in their marriages due to their past unpalatable sexual experiences. Millions of lives have been ruined psychologically and emotionally because of premarital sex.

4. Sex is first spiritual before physical. There's a spiritually unseen fusion that's taking place while the physical act is ongoing. The process of two becoming one flesh is powerfully enhanced through sex. If this is not so, God won't have said that whosoever lie with a harlot is one with her. 

(1 Corinthians. 6:13)
You say, "Food was made for the stomach, and the stomach for food." (This is true, though someday God will do away with both of them.) But you can't say that our bodies were made for sexual immorality. They were made for the Lord, and the Lord cares about our bodies.

Premarital sex is the only sin that impeached God and chases Him out of His temple, which is the body of a Christian. When premarital sex steps in, God's presence in you steps out. The Spirit of Christ and the spirit of fornication will never cohabit. God forbids it 

(1 Corinthians 6:15-17).
Don't you realize that your bodies are actually parts of Christ? Should a man take his body, which is part of Christ, and join it to a prostitute? Never! 
And don't you realize that if a man joins himself to a prostitute, he becomes one body with her? For the Scriptures say, "The two are united into one."
But the person who is joined to the Lord is one spirit with him.

More so, you become one in spirit with whoever you have premarital sex with. If they are suffering from one or more spiritually transmitted diseases such as failure, bad luck and so on, you'll also share with them. And for every premarital sex you have as a young man or woman, you are gradually fragmenting your life and destiny.

5. Martially, premarital sex is dangerous to your marital bliss and success. It'll make you compare your spouse's sexual performance with that of the partner you have had it with in the past. This will lead to infidelity, sexual dissatisfaction and also cause sexual disharmony.
Studies have shown that those who are exposed to sex before marriage don't usually have successful marriage and this usually cause divorce, physical and verbal abuse.

6. Physically, a body that has been exposed to premarital sex can never remain the same. Yoruba’s would say that "Oju apa kole dabi oju ara" (meaning that a scarred face can't be like the normal skin). In ladies, the effect is highly prominent. They'll suffer from sagged breast, looseness in their vaginas and other bodily effect.

7.  Other dangers associated with premarital sex are as follows: it makes you suffer unwanted pregnancy, unprepared parenthood, temporal or permanent delay in your progress in life amongst others.

So why do you want to ignore all these danger signals and would embrace premarital sex? Don't buy the lies propagated to sell yourself to premarital sex and its consequences.

Remember, marital sex was created by God for mankind to enjoy but the devil invented the likes of premarital and extramarital sex to make mankind suffer because he comes to steal, kill and destroy!

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1 comment:

  1. Thank you I am glad about the encouragement! I love your site, you post outstanding.here



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